Blimey, has it really been three years already?

As September rolls around, I find myself in a reflective mood, looking back on my journey as a virtual assistant. It’s been a real rollercoaster, I tell you, with more twists and turns than I ever expected when I first dipped my toes into these waters.

When I started out, I was full of beans and ready to take on the world. Little did I know just how much I’d learn, grow, and change along the way. It hasn’t always been smooth sailing, mind you, but the challenges have made the victories all the sweeter.

Let's talk about those struggles for a moment, shall we?

Because, good grief, there have been a few bumps. First off, there’s the constant juggling act of managing multiple clients and projects. One minute you’re knee-deep in social media scheduling, the next you’re frantically trying to meet a deadline for a report you’d somehow forgotten about. It’s like spinning plates while riding a unicycle – exhilarating when you get it right, but one wobble and the whole lot comes crashing down.

Then there’s the isolation. Working from home sounds like a dream, doesn’t it? No commute, no office politics, just you and your laptop. But let me tell you, there are days when you’d give your right arm for a bit of coffee kitchen gossip or even a moan about the weather with a colleague. It can get lonely, and staying motivated when it’s just you and the four walls can be a real challenge.

And let’s not forget the dreaded imposter syndrome. Even after three years, there are still moments when I wonder if I’m really cut out for this. Am I good enough? Do I know enough? What if my clients realise I’m just winging it half the time? (Spoiler alert: we’re all winging it to some degree, and that’s okay!)

But for all the struggles, the rewards have been absolutely cracking.

The flexibility is top of the list – being able to work around my life rather than living around my work has been a game-changer. Want to pop out for a cheeky coffee at 11am on a Tuesday? Go for it. Fancy a long weekend away? No problem.

Then there’s the variety. One day I’m developing a handful of newsletters and e-shots, the next I’m organising a in person conference. It keeps things interesting, and I’m constantly learning new skills. Who knew I’d become a whizz at video editing or learning how to create a website?

But the most rewarding part? The relationships I’ve built. With clients, yes – there’s nothing quite like the feeling of helping a business grow and thrive. But also with other VAs. Which brings me to one of the most exciting developments of the past year – taking on associates and building a team.

I never set out to be a "boss"...

…but as my client list grew, I realised I needed help. And what a brilliant decision that turned out to be! I’ve had the privilege of working with some absolutely wonderful women, each bringing their own unique skills and knowledge to the table. We’ve created a little community of support and encouragement, nurturing each other’s growth and celebrating our successes together.

It’s not just about dividing the workload (although that’s certainly a bonus). It’s about having a sounding board when you’re stuck on a problem, a cheerleader when you’re doubting yourself, and a friend who understands exactly what you’re going through. We lift each other up, share our expertise, and push each other to be better. It’s like having the best of both worlds – the freedom of being your own boss, with the camaraderie of a team.

Looking back over these three years, I’m struck by how much I’ve grown, not just as a VA, but as a person. I’ve learned to trust my instincts, to value my skills, and to ask for help when I need it. I’ve discovered strengths I didn’t know I had and overcome challenges I never thought I could face.

And through it all, perseverance has been my secret weapon.

There have been days when I’ve wanted to pack it all in and go back to a “normal” job. But I’ve stuck with it, pushed through the tough times, and come out stronger on the other side. And let me tell you, that feeling of overcoming an obstacle, of achieving something you weren’t sure you could do – it’s simply brilliant.

So, here’s to three years of ups and downs, of learning and growing, of building a business and a community. Here’s to the clients who’ve trusted me with their businesses, the associates who’ve become friends, and the challenges that have made me stronger. And here’s to the next three years – I can’t wait to see what they bring!